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Vida Khoshpey
Vida Khoshpey

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🤷🏻‍♀️ Freelance Devs Drop Your Realest Truth Here

(No flexing. No motivational BS. Just the raw reality people actually need.)😁

If you’ve ever made even $1 from coding outside a 9–5

this thread is your mic. 🎤🔥

Silent juniors who think they’re the only impostors

are reading every word you write. 👀💭😂

Reply using this exact template (copy → fill → send):

💰 Platforms that paid me:  
→ (Upwork, Fiverr, Toptal, Arc, Lemon.io, Contra, Twitter/X DMs, cold email, referrals, friend of a friend, etc.)

😶‍🌫️ Imposter syndrome in 2025:  
→ Still hits daily  
→ Only when I raise rates or meet a new client  
→ Sometimes, usually late at night  
→ Rarely now  
→ Never had it (respect 🫡)

🔥 One sentence I wish someone told me when I was terrified to send my first proposal:  
→ “Your real sentence here — keep it raw.”
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💬 Now fill in your details

Copy → paste → answer honestly ↓

💰 Platforms that paid me:

→ (Upwork, Fiverr, Toptal, Arc, Lemon.io, Contra, Twitter/X DMs, cold email, referrals, friend-of-a-friend, etc.)

😶‍🌫️ Imposter syndrome in 2025:

→ Still hits daily

→ Only when I raise my rates or meet a new client

→ Sometimes, usually late at night

→ Rarely these days

→ Never had it (respect 🫡)

🔥 One sentence I wish someone told me before sending my first proposal:

→ “Your real sentence here — keep it raw.”

Real examples (copy the vibe, not the words):

Platforms → Fiverr + one repeat client from Reddit  
Imposter → Daily, especially when they call me “expert”  
Truth → “I started at $15/hr while following YouTube tutorials with the client on call.”
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💰 Platforms → Upwork → Arc → now mostly direct  
😶‍🌫️ Imposter → Only before sending $8k+ invoices  
🔥 Truth → “Half my career is just being the only one who answers emails on weekends.”
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No sugarcoating.

Just truth.💕

The dev who’s about to give up tonight will read your comment and think:

“…wait, even THEY feel like this?”😭

Copy the template.

Fill it honestly.

Hit reply.

And if you don’t want to use the template, that’s totally fine 😂just tell your story in your own words. I’m listening.
Sometimes I catch myself thinking “the competition is too big… why me? will anyone even pay me?”😞
So your honesty might help someone who feels the same.

We’re waiting for your line ↓

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Welly Wahyudi

This really hit me. I’ve been dealing with imposter syndrome a lot lately, the kind that sneaks up on you and makes you feel like you’re not “good enough,” even when you’re actually doing things and improving.

A few weeks ago I forced myself to start releasing some open-source stuff and writing blog posts. Honestly? I was super nervous. I kept thinking things like, “Why would anyone care about this?” or “What if people think it’s too basic?” That little voice can be so loud sometimes.

But after putting a few things out there even tiny projects I realized most of us are just trying our best and figuring things out as we go. And the community has been a lot more supportive than I expected. Like… way more.

I’m still learning, still doubting myself here and there, but at least now I’m moving instead of just overthinking everything. Posts like this really help, so seriously, thanks for sharing it. 🙌💛

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Vida Khoshpey

You are trying your best, I really like your yellow energy😍💛, you are a perfectionist and energetic person, I am sure you will improve even if you think you know nothing. I'm sure here we use AI and no confidence. But even this is skill .😂😁🤷🏻‍♀️ Thank you for your nice comment i will support you 🙏🏻😍

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Welly Wahyudi

Haha I just recently figured out there’s actually a name for what I’ve been feeling — imposter syndrome 🤦‍♂️😂
Thanks again for the positive energy, it means a lot 🙏💛

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Vida Khoshpey

I didn't know either 😂🤷🏻‍♀️🤣 AI suggested this name lmao

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Art light

Love how real and supportive this thread is👌 — seriously appreciate you putting this out there. Your honesty makes the whole space feel a lot less intimidating, and it shows how much you genuinely care about helping beginners. I’m really inspired by the way you encourage people to share the truth instead of the polished version👍. Definitely got me interested and feeling more confident just reading your words!
😉

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Vida Khoshpey

Thank you for your beautiful comment, I followed you to support you.🥳😍 I hope you progress and yes, the atmosphere here is scary and future. But we can do it . I'm sure 🥺🤷🏻‍♀️

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Art light

Thank you so much for your kind words and support, it truly means a lot to me. I really appreciate the follow and your positive energy 🥰. Even if the atmosphere feels scary and uncertain, I believe with patience and effort we can move forward and grow. Let’s stay hopeful and keep doing our best.✌✌✌✌✌

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PLC Creates

I’m basically on a roller coaster. Some days I’m proud, other days I doubt everything. It depends on my energy level.

Looking back, I know the doubt slowed me down. I would have finished way more projects if I hadn’t second-guessed myself so much.

So now I do it differently: I pick a timeframe and I stick to it. No overthinking. Just doing my best until the time is up.

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Vida Khoshpey

There's no need to be hard on yourself, we're human too and it's really hard, you have the right to be disappointed and doubt yourself, I'm the same way, sometimes I think I'll become Elon Musk, haha, sometimes I feel like I'm nothing without AI 😂🤷🏻‍♀️💛 so keep going just keep going and I will support you 😍

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PLC Creates

Thank you for your kind words 😊

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